Asking questions about marriage and how fragile men’s egos become when their wives are more successful than they are is writer and creative consultant, Ozzy Etomi.
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Men think they can handle a woman's success but deep down never truly expect their women to actually become more successful than they are
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
They become so jealous and irrational but they are too emotionally immature to even recognize what they are suffering from.
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
A man told me recently that if we lived in a world where all women were financially stable, the marriage unit would break down. Thoughts?
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
Reactions
For where! I want my wife to be richer than Dangote. I will even wash the planes every morning 🙂 https://t.co/TuKvEvCcNk
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
That's what you all say but its because you dont really believe its ever going to happen 🙂
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
Most dudes with more successful wives don't really have a problem with this except when she seizes her mumu buttons from his fingers. https://t.co/uJ9oD4kCp2
— TOOTS ? (@TutuTishe) December 7, 2016
Lol.
One woman who was taller than her husband and an accomplished doctor. He used to make her kneel down when he spoke to her.
In Yankee https://t.co/LncJyy7u3G— MenAreLike3CorneredTarts.? (@CheRox) December 7, 2016
He was an engineer in Naija but ended up driving cabs in Yankee… outside you wouldn't know her private hell, he seemed well adjusted https://t.co/LncJyy7u3G
— MenAreLike3CorneredTarts.? (@CheRox) December 7, 2016
It's definitely true.
He brushed her often enough but "what will people say" has kept her in the marriage. https://t.co/JuDfUxnYSq— MenAreLike3CorneredTarts.? (@CheRox) December 7, 2016
I am all for women empowerment but atimes it looks like women dominance. That's where most men shut them down.
— Killua Zoldyck (@Dockisu) December 7, 2016
Women should also check themselves and stop blaming men for all their problems.
— Dayọ̀ AjĂbádĂ© (@DayneWayne) December 7, 2016
Conclusion
Contrary to peoples responses I think marriages will be stronger if both parties are financially independent. Why?
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
Because you have less women getting/staying married because they "have" to or bcos they are financially strapped & cant support kids…
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
And you have less men feeling like kings but instead being partners which would make for a happier union.
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
Society hasn't conditioned women to see anything wrong with a man having more money than she does, even if the man is her own son.
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
But society has made men feel inadequate and ashamed if they are unable to provide & emasculated if a woman is richer and arrogant about it
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
I think its a lot of bullshit pressure put on men, even at a young age to hang out with a group of girls and be expected to pick up the tab
— Ozzy Etomi (@ozzyetomi) December 7, 2016
Abi?
we will only have rich women not wives