Toni is engaging in some fear-busting regarding marriage. These days, men and women are getting married later and later…except for Yorubas and Igbos.

Should you fall into the category of gentlemen with this sort of belief about marriage, listen to Toni:

A lot of men want to be at the height of their career before marriage, in fear that having a wife will distract them from their goals.

The irony is that lots of men who achieved greatness throughout history, did so with a woman by their side. The right one won't be a burden.

— TONI (@t0nit0ne) November 21, 2017

A few people have requested links to the studies/articles referencing the studies.

Here you go:https://t.co/uOJ3cLxQhD https://t.co/9WV6hH6c0E https://t.co/XmKYYxOCVE

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— TONI (@t0nit0ne) November 21, 2017

Also, this thread isn't about convincing men to just get married – because marrying the wrong one comes with issues I haven't addressed. This thread is emphasizing the fact that marriage as an act of commitment, isn't damaging to men. What's damaging is marrying the wrong person.

— TONI (@t0nit0ne) November 21, 2017

Finding the right person in the first place, is the major hurdle. Most people struggle to find someone they consider worth marrying, so if you think you have found someone, consider yourself VERY lucky. In my opinion, that's 90% of the struggle.

— TONI (@t0nit0ne) November 21, 2017

Finding the right person in the first place, is the major hurdle. Most people struggle to find someone they consider worth marrying, so if you think you have found someone, consider yourself VERY lucky. In my opinion, that's 90% of the struggle.

— TONI (@t0nit0ne) November 21, 2017

You heard the woman. Go thou and cuff somebody.