by Jonathan Brakarsh Most of us are striving to be stronger, smarter, cooler, richer, more beautiful and many other things. ...
contributed by Kui Wamithi The more I proceed through this journey called life, the more I learn that people need ...
(contributed by Francesca Onomarie Uriri) Recently, my brother had a health challenge that was frightening, debilitating, and quite frankly, difficult ...
The past few days a strange cloud has hovered my spirit. I struggled to report to work and when I ...
When I came out of secondary (high) school in 2000, I was 15. That meant that, though I had excellent ...
With every day that you wake up; with every circumstance that you face, every person you have an interaction with, ...
You want to be normal, right? And ‘normal’ means have a job people understand, have a body as flawless as ...
Don’t lie to yourself, about what the opportunities that exist in your industry are, because someday ahead you will have to ...
Life is actually simple. You’re in a relationship that’s hurting you? Step out of it. It’s a marriage and you’re ...
Everyone wants to be, for instance, Barack Obama, the star who made history and changed the world and will never ...
I was walking up the stairs of my house the other day, normally, sprightly, when suddenly I remembered something that ...
Knowing who you are and how you best function doesn’t mean you should close your mind and actions to other ...
I have spoken twice about emotional leakage – and in context, I have used it to explain when the parts of yourself ...
When you die, if you are West African like I am, your kinsmen will most likely rally around and arrange ...
Stop looking for signs of your own progress in other people’s eyes or actions. You know where you are coming ...
I like to make a small difference between holding myself responsible for something or holding myself accountable. The former means ...
When people come to meet me for advice, they often want me to look into my life’s situations and tell ...
I always laugh when younger people tell me in an urgent voice, the voice you use when you have something ...
I used to make this mistake a lot, and today I continue to be surprised when people make that elementary ...
Therapy helps. But when it comes to emotions, therapy is about management more than anything else. And what you want ...
You know when you break up with someone you shouldn’t have been with, end a business partnership you shouldn’t have ...
No matter what other drivers are doing, you can’t move forward if you spend your time looking at them. Some ...
One of the interns at one of our companies came to spend an evening with me – he had things ...
That relationship you’re in, that friendship you’re participating in, that business you’re running, that church or mosque or temple you’re ...
I shared a mail from someone who said she doesn’t understand what I mean by being perfect or complete as ...
Two years or so ago, I was selected for a Stanford programme for entrepreneurs. It was, of course, a prestigious ...
When I posted on social media in December about feeling sadly and barely avoiding the pit of depression, I was ...
You are counting all the people who didn’t say yes to you, didn’t stay with you, didn’t love you the ...
There is nothing wrong with striving to improve your life situation. You can improve your life situation, but you cannot ...
If you’re a committed reader of this newsletter, then you probably know what I know: that money doesn’t lead to ...