by Smitten Kitten

Pay attention, this is an important one. Engage in some pre-sexual activities to spice up your sex life. A little extra time and work will make all the difference.

1. Admit you’re in a sex rut
To battle the issue, you have to first accept the problem. Once you’ve accepted that you’re in a sex rut, talk to your partner about it. Having a clear conversation before you both decide on the necessary measures you must take to help you get back in action.

2. Get educated
No, we’re not talking about high school sex education. Brush up your knowledge on sex tips and tricks. Read some saucy books or watch steamy videos. Break the boring routine and try something new.

3. Surprise!
Do you have a routine for sex? Like before sleeping or early in the morning? Well, bust this routine and surprise him when he is least expecting it. The surprise could be anything from a new piece of lingerie to a dirty text while he is at work. C’mon girls, use your imagination.

4. New places
Do you *always* have sex only in bed? It’s time to switch things up a bit. Try different and exciting places such as your kitchen counter, living room couch, bath tub… or even the backseat of your car. Ahem!

5. Foreplay time
Pay attention, this is an important one. Engage in some pre-sexual activities to spice up your sex life. A little extra time and work will make all the difference.

6. Different positions
Do you always do it missionary style? Well, it may be good and may even give you an orgasm occasionally, but after a point it gets mechanical and boring. So, don’t be afraid to experiment and try different positions for an exciting experience.

7. Take a break
Before you jump to conclusions and question us as to why you must wait when you’re already in a rut, you must know that sex is a lot better after you make him wait for a couple of days. You don’t have to completely ignore him, just stick to making out sessions once in a while and go all out after he’s waited enough.

8. Challenge each other
While you always want to keep each other on your toes, how about in your sex life too? Play the sexy game to see which one of you is the craziest and wildest.

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