By Sreejan Guha Niyogi
Getting your girl back in our life is not exactly not the same as getting a new girlfriend. If you want to get back your girlfriend’s interest you should her that you are not the same person that you were in the past.
1. Decide for yourself
Firstly ask yourself do you really want her back in your life? This depends on the type of relationship you had with your girl throughout the entire period and the reason behind the break up. You should not blindly want to get your girlfriend back in our life. You need to re analyze the situation and decide what you really want.
2. Spend sometime apart
Yes this may sound a bit of strange to you but this is how to get your girlfriend back. Do not call her o the phone, stop emailing her, no more texting messages. You should also stop enquiring about her from your friends and people who may know her. Now you can ask me that if you don’t contact your ex girlfriend how will she know that you still care about her? This will only help in making you look more desperate needy and weak. These are not the qualities that a girl would look for in her boyfriend. Do not take any advice from your friends.
3. Befriend her again
Try to become her friend once again. Act as if everything is normal and that you are hardly bothered by the break up. Be confident in your approach. Give her equal time as you give to your friends. Do not treat her in a special manner.
4. Take responsibility and be kind
If you get a chance then take responsibility for the breakup. Remember that you should apologize for what you have done. Do not accuse, blame or create a drama. Be kind, considerate and sincere. If you want to get your girlfriend back in our life you should treat her with kindness. Remember girls are very attracted to kind guys and they need always a support. Start communicating with her. Be thoughtful, gentle, and charming. Talk about her problems, listen to them properly and try helping her out.
5. Win her trust again
Getting your girl back in our life is not exactly not the same as getting a new girlfriend. If you want to get back your girlfriend’s interest you should her that you are not the same person that you were in the past. Make her believe that you have progressed a lot and changed yourself since the break up. It can be any kind of a change-something that your girlfriend hasn’t seen before, something that will win back her interest.
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