3 secrets why men don’t want you after sex

by James Allen Hanrahan

 

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Men do not fall in love when they receive they fall in love when they give. They fall in love before sex not after it. If he thinks he has earned the right to be with you by winning you over through the effort and struggle of courtship he will stay with you.

 

He chased you for weeks sometimes even months and now he’s leaving? Why is it men will do anything to be with you before sex only to turn around and do anything to leave after. Here are three secrets and the antidote.

1. It’s chemical.

After sex your oxytocin levels are increasing while the closeness and cuddling are lowering his testosterone. He unconsciously want to go do something productive for himself to raise his testosterone levels.

2. He feels guilty.

When a man has sex with you too soon he feels guilty and wants to get away from the scene of the crime. He knows he used you and now wants to get away from you because you let him. Yes as crazy as it sounds he’s blaming you! Which leads to the third reason.

3. You give too much.

Men do not fall in love when they receive they fall in love when they give. They fall in love before sex not after it. If he thinks he has earned the right to be with you by winning you over through the effort and struggle of courtship he will stay with you.

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