10 (selfish) sex moves to rock your world

by Gossip Queen

 

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We give and give in bed and what do we get in return, no cuddling and compliments and orgasm, well, we should even forget about them.

 

It’s about time we put our foot down and demand what is rightfully ours from the men in our lives. An orgasm a day, keep everything else at bay. :-P. So here is how you get selfish and get some.

Stroking:

Tell him to stroke you all over while you lie down and rest. Have him touch you from his fingertips, all over. Ask him to seduce you with just his fingers, play with your hair and stroke you at your most intimate places. Goosebumps were never better.

Circles:

Irrespective of who is on top, make sure that one of you moves in circles. Go round and round and feel the friction. Orgasm will find you very soon if the gyrating continues.

Down on you:

We love it when our man is on top and don’t mind being on top ourselves. But now that we are being selfish, why not ask him to do all the work, while we just lie down and take in all the pleasure.

Heads up:

It’s about time we are vocal about the fact that we love it when he is down there. Leave your inhibitions behind and ask him to go down on us and enjoy it all.

Clit love:

Ask him to stroke your clit and play with it for a long time. You be the lazy girl that you are and let him just play with you for as long as he wants to. Be his personal doll and let him love your clit all he wants.

Match him:

Just when your man is at it, moving on top of you, match his moves with your own. Move along with him and make the sex dirtier and rough. He will love your sudden participation.

Toy time:

While he is down on your pleasuring you, add a third partner into the love making. Get a toy and stimulate yourself. With so much help, multiple orgasms are in store.

Standing up:

When having sex standing-up, there is a lot of friction and the chances of an orgasm are increased. Lean on a counter or a wall and then wrap your legs around your man as he rocks your world.

Clench up:

Just when your man penetrates, clench your pubococcygeus muscle (the same muscle you clench and unclench during kegel’s exercise) and feel such a difference. The friction will increase and sex will be so different.

New angle:

When having sex, a new angle always changes the kind of sex you are having. When going missionary, change your angle and life your butt for added pleasure.

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